Just gimme three weeks

frustrated-mother-entrepreneur2I just read the latest post by Jennifer New (one of my favorite mom bloggers) who writes the Blog “Mothers of Invention.” She wrote about working on “kid time” and how it reorders our lives as mothers (read her post here: http://jennifernew.wordpress.com/2009/03/09/working-on-kid-time/).

It’s so funny how, after having three kids for almost seven years now, I still forget to factor in “kid time” as Jennifer calls it.

I told a friend last week that if my husband would just agree to take three weeks off of work to babysit the kids, and therefore relieve me of my mommy duties, I would write a book, publish it, create an entirely new teleseminar series and coaching program, write my next several blogposts and newsletter articles, get hired by 10 new clients, and drop 25 pounds (due to not getting up from the computer to eat since I would be so happy to finally be the productive person I want to be)!!!

Sometimes I get frustrated since I have all this creativity, energy and passion to do my work, but am constantly interrupted by someone who needs a snack, to be wiped, wants to snuggle in my lap and play with my hair or my zipper, needs help building their pillow fort, or to play referree in a sibling war. Sometimes I’m able to shift from my work to my natural mothering-love mode. Other times I shout and fiercely defend my space like a territorial pit bull. Tears fall. Guilt engulfs. But eventually, we all get over it.

I don’t beat myself up for any of it. This is just what it looks like to be a mother, where my kids are always my priority, but also a human who has her own interests that are extremely worthwhile.

Now, off to clean up the puddle of pee my daughter just made on the floor.

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4 Responses to “Just gimme three weeks”


  1. 1 Davis March 9, 2009 at 8:43 am

    I know how hard it can be to work at home. My wife is doing it, and it’s tough to switch from one mental mode to another so quickly. Good luck with your attempts.

    • 2 laraencasa March 9, 2009 at 9:01 am

      Thanks, Davis! It’s nice to hear a Dad chime in. Most days I can handle it, but other days I want to pull my hair out! I appreciate your understanding.

      Take care,
      Lara

  2. 3 Jennifer March 9, 2009 at 9:11 am

    Thanks for the shout out, Lara! This reminds me of a writer friend who said “I love my kids but I enjoy my writing.” Be well.


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